Episode 266: Stop Criticizing, Start Speaking Life
With Jeff and Terra Mattson and Featured Guests Dave and Ann Wilson
In this episode, we sit down with Dave and Ann Wilson to talk honestly about the real struggles couples face in marriage. From unmet expectations and old wounds to finding healing through vulnerability, grace, and God’s love, we unpack what it means to speak life into your spouse—even when it feels easier to criticize. Together, we explore the hope and redemption available when we lean into the hard work of marriage and invite Jesus into the center of it all.
Key Takeaways
Marriage is meant to be challenging—don’t give up; growth comes through the struggle.
Unhealed childhood wounds often resurface in marriage, shaping conflict and connection.
Vulnerability and emotional honesty are essential for real intimacy.
Speaking life over your spouse can transform a marriage more than criticism ever could.
God’s grace provides the foundation to rebuild trust and hope after brokenness.
Couples need to pursue healing for themselves to show up whole in their relationship.
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