5 Powerful Words That Change the Divorce Journey
By Amy Oliver, Founder of Healing House Solutions, Certified Divorce Financial Anaylist
Divorce sucks.
Full stop, no matter how supported someone is through the process, it’s hard on everyone; the wife, the children, the husband, the extended family, the friends, pastors and professionals watching from the sidelines. No one escapes the impact of a broken family. Hear me when I say…I HATE divorce. And, I also understand that sometimes it’s the only choice.
But divorce can also be an opportunity to change what is broken. To face reality head on, identify the unhealthy patterns, and to find a new way forward. It’s not the end of the story. In fact, it can be the new beginning that leads to hope and healing.
Healing House Solutions was born out of my own personal and professional experience with a mission to empower women facing marital difficulties or divorce by providing compassionate financial guidance and practical wisdom. We help women establish fundamental stability in their finances and lives, fostering hope and healing for a secure future guided by these five principles..
Strong, Honest, Healthy, Courageous, Creative
Picture a house being rebuilt from the ground up. It starts with a strong foundation. Then, erecting walls that contain an honest evaluation of reality and practical steps toward a healthy future. A roof comes next, covering your new dwelling that embodies courage and creativity where you feel safe and secure, building a Healing House from the ground up. Starting over with clarity, support, a plan, and a team. It’s a slow process, but a valuable one.
Whether you are a woman seeking support, a ministry leader serving families, or a therapist helping untangle a marriage in crisis, these values shape every conversation, every session, and every resource we provide. We believe that understanding the financial realities of separation and divorce allows women to take informed action and essential steps toward building a safe, hopeful, and empowered future.
About the Author: Amy Oliver is a divorced single mom of two young adults who is passionate about helping women heal and rebuild life after divorce. She is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, a licensed realtor in the state of Oregon, a writer/speaker, and the founder of Healing House Solutions, an organization that provides women with financial guidance and advocacy during the separation and divorce process. As a trauma-informed leader who completed a two-year cohort with Living Whole Hearted, she brings a wealth of personal experience, having done the hard work to heal and rebuild her own life after her 20-year marriage ended. Click here to learn about Amy’s work and Healing House Solutions.