Episode 258: Parenting Through Struggle, Not Perfection
With Jeff and Terra Mattson and Featured Guest Annie Horner
In this episode, we dive into the messy, holy work of parenting through connection—not perfection. Together, we explore how to navigate emotional floods, create safe spaces for our kids to struggle, and why repair matters more than always getting it right. From toddlers to teens, we talk about how to show up as calm, connected leaders—even when we feel overwhelmed ourselves. Whether you're parenting young kids, raising teens, or healing your own inner child, this episode offers hope, practical tools, and a reminder that you're not alone.
Takeaways
Repair is more powerful than perfection—kids don’t need us to never mess up, they need us to make things right.
Emotional flooding blocks learning—when a child is overwhelmed, connection is the first step, not correction.
Play is a child’s language—and a powerful tool for building trust and processing big feelings.
Teen connection looks different—they need presence and curiosity, not pressure or lectures.
Parents are thermostats, not thermometers—our regulation sets the tone in the home.
Tech can’t replace presence—small shifts can help us re-center connection in daily life.
God’s parenting is our model—He stays close and kind, even when we struggle.
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Jeff & Terra
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